Couples Coaching

If you are a new couple, become an enduring couple.  If you are a stressed couple, become a resilient couple.  If you are a good couple, become a great couple.

Being part of an effective, loving couple is wonderful. And, over time, it is difficult. Dealing so closely with another human being is often frustrating, confusing, worrisome, painful, disappointing, and exhausting. My mission is to help couples navigate the challenging stuff and get to more of the wonderful stuff like mutual support, joy, love, and intimacy.  There is no magic potion that allows any couple to sidestep the challenges. Yet there are many tools, skills, and concepts to be learned that no one ever taught you. You will use them in coaching to build strength and resiliency into your connection and to deal effectively with the things that bug you.

I help you see what you can't see.  Unsatisfactory patterns are re-crafted and new habits are created. There is no formula; It's a function of who you are and what you want. Authentic collaboration becomes easier. A coaching program will not only address the needs of the moment but will give you the ability to maintain your success into the future. 

Why should your relationship get advantages like these? 

It's your home! When home is a refuge, life is good, and you have a positive impact on everyone around you. Do you invest wisely in your job, your kids, and your retirement, yet take the course of your primary relationship for granted?  Why do you think it is that when marriage crisis hits, someone is usually shocked? We are just too scared to get real and address what's not working. And when we ignore the little signs, it is sometimes too late to remediate. My clients recognize that their well-being as a couple is a foundation of true peace and happiness. They are taking action now.

 

COUPLES COACHING OPTIONS 

I welcome all cultures and sexual orientations for sessions over the phone.

90-minute Relationship Breakthrough Session; Free to couples who are serious about exploring coaching to remodel their relationship   

  • Get clear about what you really want for your relationship
  • Find out the stepping stones for creating relationship change
  • Discover the #1 thing that stops you from having what you want
  • Identify the most rewarding actions for moving forward in partnership
  • Feel excited about your clear NEXT STEP in re-creating your relationship

Options for Continued Coaching:

The Proactive Plan                        $1,250  (payable in monthly portions or pay up front for a 10% discount)

  • Ten 75-minute sessions
  • Clarify the unique strengths and challenges of your couple; build on the strengths
  • Develop effective habits that continuously build relationship
  • Gain confidence that you can handle new circumstances
  • Practice many relationship-building tools and skills
  • Handle differences in affirming ways
  • Have more fun and ease!


The We Mean it! Plan                   $2,100  (payable in monthly portions or pay up front for a 10% discount)

  • Eighteen 75-minute sessions
  • For couples who are experiencing stress and are determined to create their best relationship
  • Reduce tension; increase trust
  • Clarify the unique strengths and challenges of your couple; build on the strengths
  • Develop new habits that continuously build relationship
  • Re-create how you handle (and celebrate!) differences
  • Gain confidence that you can handle changes in circumstances
  • Grow as creative individuals as you grow as a resilient and creative couple
  • Practice many new tools and skills 
  • Have much more fun and ease


What’s coaching like? It’s fascinating, challenging, eye opening, exasperating, touching, exciting, miraculous, scary, sweet, and more. The important thing is that it leads to major and lasting change so that you can have the lasting, intimate relationship you want.

What does coaching require? Desire, patience, an open mind, and a willingness to fall down and get back up again. In other words, the same things that relationship itself requires.